*** You are deserving of me like you always have been born to be But you aren’t worthy of me in the words you don’t say nor the missing actions I shall not betray my soul for promises never spoken out loud only because the truth is that you deserve me but as does everyone else, and everything I touch will be an extension of my existence And yet,  you are not worthy not because of a lack but because of a choice not to be.

It has to be a "ask and it is given" otherwise it will be taken for granted. It’s not really about connecting, you are always connected...